AITAH for confronting my guy friend for saying my voice is sometimes a turn off?
I, 17 Female, am friends with P, 17. I’d like to prefice that P has a girlfriend and she doesn’t know that he also “fake” dates. Last night me, P, and one of his friends I’ll call K were all hanging out. We were playing Valorant and someone asked if me and P knew eachother. I responded, jokingly saying “idk who he is”. P went to private vc or “party chat” and said seriously “why tf did you say that?!” I’ll write the rest as dialogue
Me: What do you mean? I was kidding P: does the team know that?! Me: why are you so angry I was obviously joking you could tell I was by my tone? P:…. goes to team chat I do know her….
Later on me, P, and K decided to play a custom match (a gamemode where only people in the party play). While playing I started talking in a deep vocal fry to mock my username which is DeepVoiceEboy because in the moment we were all laughing and it may have been a bad joke but I thought it would be funny. I’ll write this as dialogue again
P: just stop omfg Me: why? P: I don’t like it. Me: why?💀 P: Because… it’s a turn off Me: hold tf up I need to make sure are you talking about the same turn off I’m thinking because that’s not !! P: what do you think? Me: dude you have a girlfriend?! P: And?!
I don’t say anything for a few minutes because I’m on a call with my other friend and we were both flabbergasted
Me: P can we talk? P: ok Me: As a friend I want to say this. I find it off that even though you have a girlfriend your going around fake dating and- (I get cut off) P: It was really funny me and that girl were just trolling this guy Me: but it’s not just trolling a guy when you’re also “trolling” me? P: …ok Me: The “fake” dating on top of you caring about if my voice turns you on or not WHILE YOU HAVE A GIRLFRIEND is insane. Either you don’t actually have a girlfriend and you said you did to seem cool, you lied about having a girlfriend because you lack self confidence which would also explain why you were so upset by what I joked about saying that I don’t know you, or you have a girlfriend and your unfaithful. P:….i love watermelon it’s my favorite fruit
I left because WTF😆 I did kind of go off on him but everything seems so weird. AITAH?
Posted Mar 16, 2025, 1:12 AM UTC