help - reiki therapist is acting very unprofessional and its hurting us

Husband (58M), recovering PA but still lying all the time, secretly sought out a friend of ours (50F) for energy work and hid it from me (58F). I think it was starting to be an emotional affair. I want to send this to her. I don't think they met up in person, as we are 2 hours away. Names changed.

Hi Loretta.  This is Kristi.  I am very concerned and upset about the development of your and Carey's relationship.  If you are acting in a professional capacity, why are you the sounding board for Carey's relationship problems?  He quit real therapy and started talking to you.  Yes, he should not have turned it into chatty complain about Kristi sessions, but you were the professional providing a service and you allowed it.

You're not a licensed talk therapist/counselor so what "therapy" were you providing?  For example, there was a two and a half hours long conversation at night while Carey was driving, running errands, and texting me?  That doesn't sound like "reiki" or "meditation therapy".  You did a lot of damage to us.  He hid and lied about where he was so he could secretly talk to you.  Over two months and more than 30 hours of talking, not including the texting that he conveniently deleted.  This was not appropriate! I thought we were friends.