[M4F] Anyone looking for something a bit more...wholesome?

Hey there everyone, I'm looking for a partner to write with, talk with, and generally have a good time with. I've been looking through DPP and other roleplay subreddits, and I've been seeing a lot of dark prompts. You know what I'm talking about. Non-con, manipulation, forced, coercion, and all of that. Now, I'm not by any means judging others for what gets them off, and so long as everyone is having a good time IRL, then people should feel free to explore their fantasies and desires to their heart's content. However, for me, I've always been a bit more into the wholesome side of things. Two people that are just really into each other and enjoy each other's company and companionship. A healthy relationship. If you haven't guessed by now, I am about as aggressive as a Spaniel, though if you want me to choke you, all you have to do is ask. Consent is sexy, safe words are sexier.

Now, I have my fair share of kinks and fetishes, all of which can have their dark sides. Personally, I love hypnosis, body modification, transformation, tentacles and all kinds of things. But imagine if the person being hypnotized into a completely brain dead, slutty bimbo desperately wanted it more than anything, loving the idea of letting loose all of their inhibitions with the person they trust the most. Those tentacles she is being completely dominated by? She summoned them, and she knows that no lasting harm will come to her, aside from being incredibly sore the next day.

I realize that this doesn't make for an incredibly engaging roleplay, you know? Where is the conflict, where are the stakes, where is the danger? Well, that's where the story comes in, you know? I have always wanted the sex part of roleplay to be wholesome, consensual, and fun for everyone, real and imagined. Conflict can come within the relationship, or from outside, but the sex itself should never be adversarial.

A bit about me as a role-player and DPP partner. I'm male, 28, lean towards Dom, and I have over ten years of roleplay experience. I am highly literate, and have DMed/GMed roleplays and TTRPGs before, so don't worry about my ability to write descriptive, in depth replies. I often write in high fantasy settings, with magic, elves, demi-humans, etc. However, I am open to more realistic scenarios and worlds, and open to fandoms as well. Just ask and we can figure things out.

Long story short, I want a roleplay/writing/chatting partner that would be interested in delving into our fantasies in a safe, wholesome, but no less sexy way. If any of this resonated with you, send me a message and we can chat a bit, and if we want, we can start building out some ideas and possible roleplay scenarios. I don't bite (unless its consensual).