Trying to resolve a broken friendship
Today I realized a friend is intentionally trying to ignore meeting with me alone by pleading to have brunch on the same day and time with the whole friend group instead of just me.
I have told this friend I needed to talk to her alone about something important and asked two weeks ahead of time if she was free and she said yes. The whole friend group had something planned on the day before. In the group chat she has been the main advocate to move the friend group plans to the exact time I agreed to have a chat with her.
The chat consists of me just letting her know why I’ve been distant to her because she had done something to break my trust in her and that I wanted to hear her perspective and move forward so we can hang out in group setting without the weird atmosphere.
She also treats me distantly and as things are right now I don’t want to invite her to anything I host until things are cleared up. I haven’t invited her to a lot of things already because I don’t feel comfortable to be myself with her there.
But if she wants to ignore me should I just let it go and continue to do as I’ve been doing?
Posted Apr 5, 2025, 1:34 PM UTC