Being Single is Also kinda Okay

Unconditional love might be the only love that you beg from the god or the universe, oh sorry, kids call it manifestation nowadays, sounds sciency enough to justify being delusional i guess,

It takes a NOT well-adjusted person to walk the NON- conventional path, most of us have some issues we are dealing with, so unconditional self-acceptance is the prerequisite and the one you should be trying to manifest i believe.

This post is not me pointing fingers and screaming "Get a Damn Hobby you bastards", its more like caressing gently and kissing your forehead and whispering into your ear "Get a hobby maybe my love?"

While coupled people perform their evolutionary duty under covering fire of bad poetry and stolen shayari, singles enjoy the willful suspension of genetic pressure. No need to rationalize your partner's quirks as "charming" when they're clearly symptoms requiring medical attention and i can bet my left nut that almost all of us are NOT well-adjusted in some ways.

Science has toppled many myths, but none faster than "you need someone to complete you." Between the pedophile's compulsion and a mother's devotion lies a vast spectrum of hormonal cocktails, yours just happens to pair well with solitude rather than codependency.

OfCourse you would like to touch another in safety of another warmth, feel your breadth on your skin, paste chocolate syrup on their titties...woohooo, too much, gotta keep it kid friendly, We're all random objects in a universe which is no less than a pinball machine where we hit each other at times via random events, but singles bounce with fewer entanglements. What coupled friends call fate, you can call freedom. Their string theory comes with attachment strings, yours doesn't.

Singles preserve that glitch in the system, self-contained unconditional love!!!!
where you sit in a fancy cafe by yourself, watch a movie by yourself in a cinema hall, that doesn't require another person's validation. Call it temporary sanity. Your emotional graffiti isn't co-authored, and your donations of time and energy aren't anonymously redistributed to in-laws.

In our hyper-connected world where relationships are leveraged like Derivates offering high returns but in actuality, are only misery for most people, being single is monthly SIP that requires patience and mental fortitude to long term gains, the ultimate middle-finger salute to societal expectations if you are into that spite stuff.

If unconditional love sneaks up on you someday, you'll recognize it precisely because you weren't hunting it down like a desperate bounty hunter with mounting bills.

Until then, or forever after, embrace singlehood as the only trace of free will left in a world determined to pair everything from socks to souls.