Religious swingers (we are frum)

If you are a practicing religious person (especially if it’s a form of observance that it in some way noticeable or culturally distinct), I am curious what you’re attitude is towards playing with people from your faith.

We have never done it but I know others that have and it seems like there might be something particularly exciting to it.

For reference we are Orthodox Jews (well other than in this one area!).