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LukeD1992

I think I may have messed shit up

Had sex with a friend this weekend and it was incredible. Yesterday she kept texting me how good I made her feel and that she wants more, to which I already set up for next weekend.

We had already been texting each other daily for a while now, and today I decided it was a good idea to tease her by texting that "I really want you right now". When she replied "already? We've met 2-3 days ago", my heart sank and I realized how pathetically clingy that message must have sounded.

I tried to fix it by saying I was joking and that I'm not some annoying clingy guy, but I fear the damage may already have been done. She even suggested coming to see me tonight after a dinner she'll be attending, but honestly, I'd rather she didn't come.

What can I do? Just stay quiet and let her come to me when she feels like it?

Posted Apr 8, 2025, 9:07 PM UTC

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