The whole function of trade is dumb

Is there any place I can go to such as another subreddit or website where I can trade with others? I have well over 2000 tokens and keep going through and offering cards to friends and they always say no, or offer me a card I do not need. Why we cannot request a card we want is bananas to me, I know they’re gonna fix it but in months from now and I don’t wanna wait to get my hands on an arceus ex or blastoise ex or articuno ex or whatever else I need to complete some decks I wanted to make.