I need advice on how to talk to women

Hello everyone, I am a 32M and I need some advice. I am trying to date and I have come to the conclusion that I have no idea how to talk or flirt with women. My conversations are boring, I’m not sparking attraction, and women either stop answering me or unmatch me on dating apps. I have no issue with confidence, it’s just I have no idea what I am doing. I was never good at this and now I want to start dating since I’m settled with my career and I’m just lost with words literally. I was wondering if anyone could give me some advice on how to proceed. I would try dating coaches and watching videos but I feel those are scripted to just give the illusion of success.