So how do I handle this & is this considered cheating?…. My heart hurts right now

So I’ve never met this girl in person but we’ve been talking for 3 months now on call & text & stoped for about a month we still talk but just not as much because she told me she’s trying to get her life together. Anyways we was planning on meeting next month my friend also follows her on instagram she blocked me on her instagram she told me it was because she don’t want her friends following me. Anyways my friend sent me a screenshot of her story today & apparently she been texting another guy. We technically are not official yet because we haven’t seen each other in person but my heart hurts for some reason is this considered cheating? Should I still see her next month? I’m crying dawg im really so heart broken