Why

Why is it that so many of us on this forum believe that the person we loved and in some cases still love are going to come back and love us differently or better than they did before leaving?

Why is it that so many of us on this forum believe that the person ever thinks about us? when the reality is that they do not and are moving on with their lives.

What is it in our dna make up that makes us stay dormant for a long period of time believing that if we do other things that we may miss the odd chance that “our” person is going to change their mind and come back?

Why is it that someone else moving on with their life causes us so much pain because that life is moving on without us in it?

This is my plea for not only myself but many of you here to move forward and live your lives. Find peace in yourself and find happiness in the things that you do to show self love. You deserve this. No one is going to treat you better and until you can love yourself enough to stop tormenting yourself then you will not reap the rewards that life has for you. You never know getting back on the horse could lead you to somewhere you never dreamed of being in your lifetime.

If god can take the wrong people out of your life, imagine god putting the right people in their place.

We all do really get so much more attached than we want to believe and love is addicting. So choose yourself and love yourself and find happiness within yourself :)