AIO: Found my boyfriend of 2 years in random video sex chats

So to preface this, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now and we’ve struggled quite a bit with how much porn/sexually engaging content he looks at. Once we moved in together we had a lot of conversations about how it I feel it affects our relationship because I would catch him every once in a while in a lie about what he’s looking at. For example, I had found saved links and history to women’s OnlyFans pages and he had claimed he didn’t know how they got there or that it was a complete accident while he was trying to “delete an email”. Things like this don’t happen a TON, but it does happen a concerning amount to me, and I usually catch him every time.

Instances like that happened several months ago and after a pretty big argument, he’s seemingly stopped and hasn’t shown much interest in trying to get back to these pages/sites.

Now for the AIO part, I found he’s registered several accounts for random video sex chats all created a year ago when we were close to celebrating our first year anniversary. I haven’t bothered to look deeper to see if he’s still active on the accounts or created anymore. I don’t think I can handle that emotionally right now. I did confront him about it already, to which he said that his card information/Apple was stolen and was used to create these accounts. His card information being stolen is true and he had to fix it probably 4-5 months ago when his bank contacted him. Maybe I’m looking to deeply into it, but these accounts were made in 2023, all of them on the same day. If that was suspicious activity for his bank wouldn’t they have contacted him sooner? I also should note that all the accounts I found were found in Apple’s Passkey using his Apple ID to create them.

Am I overreacting over something he is/was doing while in a relationship? I feel like porn in a relationship is one thing that could get worked on, but going out of your way register an account to have video sex with strangers is a completely different animal. Am I wrong to call this cheating? Has the time to bring this up “passed”? Am I wasting my time on this?