How would you describe being transgender/queer and how dose that identity interact with gen pop

Hey gamers I am working on a story right now about a gender non conforming character, and their trans identity is very important to the story. So I came here to get a more nuanced perspective on how trans people view themselves and how they feel/ are treated within society. How do you feel about your identity since you've come out and how has that identity interacted with your community.