I don’t know how to change

I think I’m just too clingy. I want to feel safe secure and loved. My husband will go all day without texting me back, but will be texting back his family group chat and his discord group and his LinkedIn. I am just low on his priorities. He sees friends out in public while I am with them, and will talk to them for 10 minutes and not introduce me. I feel invisible. He doesn’t do it on purpose and he has a temper so I don’t risk starting an argument over it. I’m fucking sad that I want so much more attention. I want to feel like he adores me and that he is proud to call me his wife. To tell people I’m his wife. I don’t think half the people he works with even know he is married. I talk about him all the time. I’m just pathetic. I know it’s me, I don’t know how to be okay with this, but I obviously adore my husband and just have to learn to live with it.