Needing to rant about petty comments directed to me as I lose weight.

I mostly have supportive friends, but there's a chick who I count as an aquaintance, who has been sending me shade at every opportunity.

She comments how my boobs have shrunk. (Which I know is normal for females losing weight and I don't personally care.) She points out whenever I'm obstaining from carbs during group meals. She complains that my workouts interfere with planning even though I'm never invited to her stupid events anyway. (I go to the gym and don't work out at the house.)

I know she's probably jealous or there's something going on. She's gotten super mean ever since I started visibly losing weight. I am thankful I don't have too much body dysmorphia to get too wrapped up in her comments on my looks, but damn. If I had any lower self esteem, I'd be in the pits with this one.

I tell myself that maybe I'm looking really hot to her and so she's feeling competitive with me over it, even though IDGAF about her. What bothers me about her attitude is that she's being a hypocrite, she preaches about females empowering females and yet seems to be trying to tear me down when I'm working on myself.

Anyway, I needed to rant to a group who would understand how frustrating it feels. Thanks for reading. Keep up the hard work, you're making me proud for sticking with it.

Posted Apr 8, 2025, 9:23 PM UTC

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