I am seriously confused on what’s going on?
So I met this awesome woman. In person, she’s amazing. Funny, kind, thoughtful. We’ve gone out on a few dates and they’ve been great. She’s super talkative and interested in asking me questions, and listening to what I have to say. She’s super touchy, she’s always kissing me, touching my arms, face, and hair. And she’s told me she’s wants to continue to see me and see where this goes. She even offers up potential ideas for future dates while on the dates. Everything seems promising in person.
But over text, it’s an entirely different story. Some days I can barely get a text back. Like most days it’s about a day response time. I understand not putting in too much commitment/effort in the talking stage. But it’s hard to build up momentum in conversations outside of dates and even set stuff up this way. We both have jobs, so there’s sometimes where we can’t go out for a week or two due to our work commitments. And that gap between dates feels odd barely communicating.
I don’t know if she’s just trying to not come off as too eager or desperate. Or perhaps she’s just not talkative on text. Or if she’s maybe not interested. But it just seems odd that her enthusiasm on dates is the total opposite from her texting.
Any advice would be great.
Posted Apr 8, 2025, 9:24 PM UTC