28 [M4M] Dream relationship on the side?

I am 28, currently married, and exhausted at the lack of desire I have in my current relationship. Everything else is fine, but damn does it start to weigh on you after a while.

I'm hoping to find someone somewhere in this world that is interested in having genuine conversations and learning more about each other.

I'm white, have a thin (twinkish you'd say) build and remain a mildly active lifestyle (gym 4x a week). Yes - im a "bottom". I'm attracted to guys that are masculine and have some muscle on them (no you don't have to be ripped, but I am not attracted to large/obese guys).

Surely someone fitting this is at least curious in guys and open to this - but we shall see.