I want to start this comment by saying YES, I am aware that Mel said she likely won't be working on the portals film due to funds etc. But, I still want to chip in my thoughts also if I get downvoted on this or the mods delete this then whatever. Their first rule is being kind to others here, so I will be respectful unlike the person who just accused me of this shit. 

Edit: Mods were chill with it and told me to block out names so I did.
Also I you don't care about Mel's relationships, this post is not for you.

Don't stress your fingers and scroll away.


I made a post regarding the topic of Mojean and Mel's film: https://www.reddit.com/r/MelanieMartinez/s/1swHfz4xKL

Most people disagreed. Very fine, everyone has opinions. I'm not mad about that (I'll get into it soon).

I get not everyone likes Mojean, even I am still adjusting to all this and I'm not that fond of him quite yet. But despite this, I think fans should take it a little easy?? I'm just suggesting. I know the relationship is so sudden and not everyone has to like him but at the end of the day, we really don't know this guy and I just think people should be aware of that. 


Now here's what I'm mad about. This person literally said I was sexist because I thought of the idea that since Mojean's an actor he could connect her to people in the industry or possible have a role in her film IF there was a possibility out there that she changed her mind. 

I didn't say baby her all the way through it or start taking the wheels in her project. 

All I said was connect, to introduce her to ppl in the film industry since we know he's an actor and likely has more experience than her considering the fact he's been doing acting for a long time and she just started out with K-12 and obviously does her MVs. 

And then she can choose to take it from there to get the project started if she wishes to. This is how people connect with each other in the industry, in any industry or job. You talk to people, form connections and get your money up.


Now I had ppl disagree with me which was fine, everyone has diff opinions. Like I said it was just an ideas since I remembered he is an actor. 

But instead I got called sexist and some ppl may see that as something small I'm getting pissed about but.... 

What a future you're wishing for Melanie, for jumping ahead to wish she'll no longer be with a person that makes her happy. How is that feminist is that? Why are you projecting that future to me as well? That I depend on every man I see for my goals hello?? That is so fucked up. 

I get you don't like him but projecting this much is crazy considering the fact that Melanie has formed relationships with people who have contributed to her projects in some way. 


Like I said in the screenshot, Verde was literally HER photographer AND contributed to her portals album. so is he now sexist all of a sudden for choosing to be part of her craft or helping her out?? This woman has literally used people to get her leg up with her projects. I love Mel (the artist) but that is also a fact as well, we've seen many people comment on this sub about this with her bffr. 

Verde literally liked all her posts on insta and when I went to his page, Mel only liked the posts that were relating to her/had her in it. How are you gonna accuse me of being sexist and wish that upon me when she just did all that with her ex?? 


Connecting with people in the acting/entertainment industry does NOT = depending on men to take her to her goal. The entertainment industry, although male dominated (unfortunately), still has women!!!

Congratulations for just ignoring all women in the acting/entertainment industry, super feminist of YOU. She could literally have a women only crew if she wanted to or work with female directors and co-writers to improve her storytelling skills. 
Or use the portals film as a way to uplift writers and directors who are women, don't be so small brained. 

As much as I loved K-12, I can admit that it was choppy writing wise and while the messages/general storyline of the film was great, I think she can do even better as an artist and I just want to see how she can improve on that skill. 

God forbid for wishing she makes improvement in her craft ig by getting help through others even though she ALREADY does that with people she forms close bonds with. On top of that this person has no idea how the entertainment industry works, just showing your ass and embarrassing yourself. 

Once you're in the industry, she can't just get left out. Have you never heard of things like film credits or accolades?

You're just saying that she'll get left out because you want her to feel left out (Again how feminist of you to wish that on a woman) of being in an opportunity where she can delve into different forms of art (singing, writing and acting). She would be such a triple threat if she continues to improve in this, especially in her storytelling and acting skills. 

But no, you want to put words in my mouth to feel great about hating him and I think that's nuts. And I think fans should just relax. 

All I said was connecting with people in the industry and then she can take it from there, NOT babying her through the whole process. 

You'll go ahead to call me sexist and wish that on me but will probably be the same selection of people in this fandom that brush over her allegations (that another woman made) and infantalize her to avoid making her take accountability. Feminist much?? 

It's such a shame because I actually liked your leeches crochet but for you to show yourself out like this is not it. Heal that. 

I never used to understand it but now I can see why Melanie hates anything to do with crybaby. Because people like this person just project the image that she's helpless onto her which again, is not very feminist.

Apparently it's sexist for Melanie to receive any help from any men in her projects, fans being harsh to Mojean, fans projecting, Melanie hating her crybaby era due to projections etc