Feeling Lost After School, No Job, and a Breakup

Hey everyone, I could really use some advice. I just finished school recently, and I thought I’d be pumped to be done, but honestly, I’m feeling pretty low. I don’t have a job lined up yet, which is stressing me out, and to top it off, I went through a breakup a couple weeks ago. It’s like everything I was counting on, graduation, a relationship, some kind of stability just vanished, and I’m stuck in this weird limbo.

Has anyone else been through this kind of slump? How do you even start to pull yourself out? I guess part of me feels like I should be doing more, but I’m just tired. I’ve been scrolling job boards, but nothing clicks, and I keep replaying the breakup in my head, wondering if I messed up. It’s hard to stay motivated when it feels like nothing’s going right. I’d love to hear from anyone who’s dealt with this, how did you find your footing again? Any tips for getting through the days when you just feel blah?

Posted Apr 9, 2025, 8:20 PM UTC

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