Dating advice(?)

32, nonbinary, afab person here. I find it very hard to date. I’m a pretty confident person with a strong personality. Aquarius. Not to toot my own horn but I’m… Beautiful and have a great body and I’m tattooed and my hair is cool. I make art and have friends and hobbies… I’m ready for a relationship. I have a strong preference for trans women/nonbinary people but most don’t like afab people it seems. How do I attract or look for basically lesbian trans women/nonbinary people? I have tried dating apps and on Reddit and going to gay/queer bars and events. I live in Austin Texas so there are place to go. I just don’t really party and I’m kinda discouraged with dating. I’m in like the best shape, most stable, happiest part of my life and I just want to share it with a partner. And advise or anyone interested in messaging me?