Husband leaving me during holidays

I’m pretty much no contact with my in-laws, if I run into them I’m pleasant but I other wise do not speak to them.

No contact has never been established it just pretty much escalated to that as my MIL from hell is a major narcissist and it’s been too many things over the years where it’s not healthy for me to be near her.

I told my husband I’m not spending any holidays with them moving forward as they make me not feel welcomed and uncomfortable and he says “you said it was fine last time we saw them”.

Anyways- he confirmed with them to go over to their home for Passover even though I’m not going. Even though I have never told him to not see his parents he tells me he doesn’t see them because of me and he will resent me when they die.

Has anyone dealt with a similar situation? He could see them at any time, it takes 10 minutes to walk over to their apartment and he chooses to spend the holiday with them where he can see them at any time but leaves me by myself on a holiday…