My dad thinks its not affecting me

My parents r getting a divorce and my dad thinks its not affecting me? like i have so many thoughts and everything and he only thinks about himself. I know its hard for him, but he didnt ask what my problem is, he expects me to ask him. He didnt once asked if its affecting me or if im alright. But to be fair i didnt ask him either. I swear to god in this household there r no feelings. Idk maybe im a jerk, i feel like once sec im alright and the other im slipping away