Boyfriend is lazy and unhygienic.

Hey I need some advice. I’m newly 20 and just started living with my boyfriend who is also 20. We have been friends for years but only been together around 7 months. Well as I’m living with him I started noticing things like he wears the same pair of clothes for days at a time, only showers every few days, and doesn’t do ANYTHING around the house. I’ve also never seen him brush his teeth. Ever. When I ask him to do this dishes, or do the laundry, maybe even clean our room, he complains saying he works so he shouldn’t have to. (He literally does part time at a dollar general.) I’m about to be in college, when I get into college is he gonna accept the same excuse from me 🤔. No probably not. I’ll ask him to do something then hours later it’s still there and he says he just doesn’t want to do it right this moment, and then it doesn’t get done til I do it. I love this man, and u just don’t know what to do cus I don’t wanna live the rest of my life with someone who is this lazy and unhygienic. I’ve never smelt bad breath on him or anything, I don’t even smell him when he doesn’t shower. But him wearing the same clothes over and over again is so disgusting to me, I’ve never had an ick as bad as that. I literally picked his clothes off the bathroom floor to put them in the dirty basket and he TOOK THEM OUT of the basket to put them back on.. I yelled at him and told him how not okay that was sense I just got done with laundry and he has WASHED clothes to wear. I just don’t know what do to!

Posted Apr 9, 2025, 8:29 PM UTC

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