Something really small bit uncomfortable for me

So for context I basically fell in love with my someone I met a few years ago. We were really close friends until we got a bit more involved, and then things ended leaving me in an emotional state for a while. Fast forward 2 years since I last spoke to this person. I have a great relationship which has been going on for a year now going strong. I feel as if I’ve moved on from this person from before and am moving on with my life in a positive and healthy way and it’s exciting. The person from my past has messaged me though out of the blue asking for something of theirs (which they gave to me) back. I have no problem with giving this thing back to them as it’s been sitting in my room collecting dust basically, I even forgot I had it until they reminded me. My plan was to leave it outside the door for them to come get it since I was away at the time, or even for a friend of theirs to, but things haven’t worked out like that and they would rather come by and get it themselves in about a weeks time. I don’t know what this would look like, if I would meet them somewhere and give it to them personally or something else, whatever. This is uncomfortable for me as it feels sudden and random and I don’t want this to be happening. I don’t want to just pie them off and say I don’t want to meet up with you, but I want to get the thing they’re asking for out of the house and back with them as well to be honest. I’m dreading it basically. What do you make of this?

Posted Apr 9, 2025, 8:31 PM UTC

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