Alien Toddler Disappeared

Hi all! After the latest Legacy patch my alien toddler disappeared. She was still young, so the father has a couple of $subject memories related to her, and that’s it. But now my hoodchecker isn’t checking the hood (lol), and there’s an error pop-up. I’m starting to freak out. What should I do? Should I delete his memories with memory commander? Should I do some simpe magic? I’ve never used this programs, but this hood is too precious to me. Any tips on how to save it?