Worried about SK - strange communication

Hi folks,

I’m worried about SD. She went with mom for her EOWE visit which technically wasn’t this past weekend. Mom typically comes once a month or once every two months.

Mom made some comments about SDs overnight bag containing the same clothes multiple times (they are mom clothes at mom’s request and SD chooses out of a mom suitcase what she wants to take and mom washes them sometimes and just repacks the bag). Also about having private insurance for her and a few petty things.

Mom has daily noncustodial day phone calls and she hadn’t called in over a week. SD does not call her or respond to her ILY texts.

Mom was supposed to drop off kiddo to school on Monday but it is now Wednesday and mom has been silent and ignoring emails since Saturday.

Message from SK stated they “will meet for exchange later”. Then hours later a message said “will meet at 10”. Then hours later no messages coming.

My Fiance has his head in the sand. I am very worried.

Mom is on probation and has no address and cannot be reached by the school via address or phone.

I know he needs to go to court. I don’t know how to encourage it because he said he isn’t thinking the worst.

Mom has a history of physical and verbal abuse and a criminal record.