25 [M4F] need to vent up a bit about my relationship

Well basically my gf always have been kinda prude and vanilla which I didn’t mind at all. But recently I mentionned some of my kinks that I hided to her for years. When she heard my kinks she just judged. I get that not everyone is into the same things, and I wasn’t expecting her to be on board with everything. But the way she reacted just made me feel kinda ashamed, like I was some sort of weirdo for even bringing it up. I thought we had the kind of relationship where we could be open about this stuff, even if it wasn’t something she wanted to try.

Now I feel like I’m stuck with these thoughts in my head and no one to really talk to about them. I don’t want to pressure her into anything, and I definitely don’t want to mess up our relationship, but I also don’t want to feel like I have to keep a part of myself hidden forever.

So yeah, if anyone’s down to just chat—whether about this or just random stuff to take my mind off things—I’d really appreciate it. Just good vibes, no judgment. It’s been a month now and I just need to vent up about it. I’d don’t mind sharing the kinks I told not (just not on my post). Looking to talk, laugh anything that would make me feel better Feel free to come dm and chat about it or anything else (sexual or not) Please no homewreckers