Can you ever recover from bad sex on a first date?

Had an amazing first date the other day, but then she invited me to her house and we had possibly the worst sex I ever remember. Negative levels of chemistry. And it was baffling cause we had a great and really hot vibe just beforehand. I seriously can’t believe how it happened. She was the starfish kind of woman, absolutely giving nothing, so little that I stopped to check if she felt good and wanted to continue or not. And I bet that I looked like a frustrated 14yr old to her, out of ideas and flustered.

After that, I just wanted to get up and leave and forget the whole thing forever. But we stayed cozied up in bed talking all night and it was nice.

She wants to met up again. It’s a bummer cause she’s really cool but I feel like I lost all attraction to her after our encounter.

Posted Apr 15, 2025, 7:25 PM UTC

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