Stressed Junior with 3.75 UW

I have all of these high impact extracurriculars, I'm a URM going for a niche major, I have home responsibilities that contributed to my low GPA, I have max course rigor, I am top 3% of my class, I still have another semester that will go on my transcript, 4.36 W GPA. And it still feels like nothing I do will be enough. I have 7 Bs and a C on my transcript.

I know college doesn't define me, I know I'll be ok no matter where I go, but at this point I'd rather know that I have no shot. Knowing that I could have just barely not made the cut at these schools is driving me insane. I want to know the places I have a real shot at so I can start mentally preparing myself, maybe mapping out my plan.