Are you guys sure that I'm going to find someone who's going to make me happier?

As I put more thought into this relationship I feel like it ending might not have been the worse thing to happen. We both have problems and things we did wrong that contributed to the relationship ending and I think we both need to time to grow before we try to date again, I would have had to move away in order to pursue this relationship which I think would have been a bad thing in the long run, and this moment to assess my life and work on myself has been going very well.

But the one thing that I can't get over is losing her personality. I remember one day she said something that made me laugh my ass off and I thought about what a shame it would have been to lose a personality like this. The big questions I'm thinking of is how am I supposed to not miss parts of her personality that I loved when I find someone else who doesn't have those traits? How she supposed to not pop up in my mind when I go the places we went with someone else and think about what we could have been? Lots of things weren't a good match in this relationship but our personalities did 100 percent. As much has I now view this breakup as overall a good move for both of our growths, I just can't physically imagine dating another personality when I'm ready to date again. The idea of doing this again with someone else sends shivers down my spine. Just the words "someone else" feels like the sound of nails on a chalk board. I can't just do this all again with "someone else." I just can't imagine anyone else's personality making me as happy.