What do you focus on and effects of change of focus, a research question
Lately I have been thinking about how what we focus on can affect our results. Personally I am not always thinking and fantasizing during play, just feeling what comes. Sometimes I fantasize about a hot girl with her finger in my ass or pegging me, sometimes I fantasize about a hot girl blowing me with a finger in my ass.
What occured to me is that some of us are visualizing being pegged while some of us are feeling the sensations of the toy in our ass, but we are imagining our dick being sucked, fucked, or otherwise stimulated, maybe even watching or listening to porn and imagining ourself in the action.
That got me wondering about those that focus on the sensations, real or imagined, either in our ass or in our dicks. Makes me wonder if those that are picturing someone sucking their dick or fucking someone or just concentrating on the feelings of being hard or any other slight sensation in their dick are more likely to have a wet orgasm and if those that always imagine being pegged or that are concentrating on the feelings in their prostate or feeling the toy move around are more likely to have a dry orgasm.
So for the purposes of scientific research it would be great if some of you could think about what you normally think about and concentrate on during prostate play could switch it up during your next session and report back here if it changes anything for you. If you normally are feeling the toy move around in your ass and you are imagining being pegged or you are listening to an audio story about having your ass pleasured switch it up. Don't concentrate on the feelings in your prostate at all. Imagine getting a great blow job, feel a wet mouth on your dick, hear someone slobbing on your dick as their head bobs up and down, reach out and pretend to run your hands through their hair.
If you normally are thinking about your dick being pleasured switch it up and just feel the toy inside of you moving around. Imagine someone behind you playing with your ass and not touching your dick at all. Don't try to even feel what sensations are in your dick. Completely forget you even have one.
So give this a shot and report back here in the comments if and how this changes the experience for you physically, mentally, what is different about your results?
I don't know how much this change of focus will affect different people. I assume that for some it won't change things much, for some it might be a game changer. I am excited to find out if this experiment bears any fruit that might help some people.
Posted Apr 15, 2025, 7:30 PM UTC