MilSpouses, what are we doing?

this isn’t so much for the ones in the military but for their SPOUSES! My man just recently reenlisted into the military (im so proud of him) but im kind of at a weird standstill right now. As a military spouse… what am i suppose to do? We can financially afford to keep me home and make me a SAH sort of thing, or i could work and bring in extra money. either one works completely fine for us. i’ve really considered being a SAH for a few years until after we have kids and all kids are of age to be in school and THEN go into working again, but ive always been financially independent and the idea of not working makes me nervous — but on the flip side, it’s also a very nice feeling because it gives me all the time in the world to do anything i desire through out the day, and when we eventually have kids, it gives me so much time with them. What are we all doing spouses??? just looking to see sides from both women who are working and from the girlies who are stay at home wives/moms. 🤍