For LLFs (or HLs with LLF partners), has tracking/strategizing around their cycle helped at all? Do ya'll track your frequency?

As a non-vagina owner (HLM-28, forgive/politely correct any ignorance 🙃.) I've noticed that me and my wife (LLF-26) pretty much only do anything sexual only when she's ovulating.

Which since I long stopped initiating(I still flirt, I just don't overtly ask/invite) she is actually the one initiating 90% of our sexual intimacy now-a-days (cuddles & non-sexual intimacy is fairly abundant all the time, though most limited to cuddles). She'll pretty well only start things herself, or heavily hint at me to start things when she's ovulating.

This is a little frustrating, as while I understand desire will wax/wane with her cycle, and I do like that anything sexual is happening at all. It's beginning to feel like she only ever wants me because her hormones are screaming at her for sex, not because she actually desires me.

We're both in a cycle tracker app, so about once a month or two I will go in there and add her phases to my personal calander with alerts.

I'd like to plan how "foreward" I am with her cycle, and perhaps start plotting dates and metrics in an Excel sheet or something so I can see what the trends are.

Anybody tried anything like this, thinking something like the below, ofc it'll matter on the individual.

Ovulating: Go for it, be direct, be dirty. Initiate overtly but provide a non-commital way out or re-direct if she's not up for it. Highest intimacy rate.

Luteal: Winding down from ovulation, more forward/lewd towards start, taper off to more wholesome towards end. Lower intimacy rate.

Period: Wholesome only, give plenty of alone time, be a good butler lol. Lots of listening and validation(more than usual). Zero intimacy rate.

Folicular: Wholesome towards the start. Get more forward/lewd towards the end, sexting, build up for ovulation, romantic gestures.