My complicated life

just need to rant

Me and my partner are separated right now and he technically has not proposed to me but I joined a lot of groups about planning weddings and so on, because I know if he and I get back together that the next step would be marriage. Facebook groups and so on always want to year of the wedding and I genuinely don’t know but I estimate it will be 2027 or 2028 or even later. Also, I have health issues.

I just wanted to get ahead of the planning especially since my wedding isn’t going to have a budget. The reason why there’s no limit is complicated too. But mainly I don’t want to wait until I’m actually proposed to. Please share your thoughts and opinions!!!

I’m looking to invite a lot of people so I was hoping for a venue that could hold up to 50,000. Which doesn’t mean 50,000 people would be invited. Just that I didn’t want to worry about cutting people out of the wedding.

The biggest inside venue I could find was the Jio World Center that holds, I believe, up to 16,500 people. But there’s another venue that I’m considering that hasn’t been built yet so I’m waiting for it to be built. It should be built by Adani.

https://www.jioworldcentre.com/jio-world-convention-centre

This photography team seems good but the pictures seem really edited? I think I would want closer to natural?

https://www.rohanmishraphotography.com/

I wanted invitations that were super unique and I came across this company that did the Ambani’s wedding invitations!

https://www.edc.co.in/wedding-card-maker.php

Plus then you add this company that does customized gifts that can be added to a wedding invitation!

https://www.fleurdelis.co.in/home

Anyways let me know what y’all think so far of everything! Also, for dresses I haven’t decided everything. All my outfits will be custom though.

I would really like people of color to be a part of my wedding team. I feel like people of color don’t get as many opportunities as their counterparts so that’s why that’s important to me. It doesn’t mean I wouldn’t hire anyone who isn’t a person of color.

Posted Apr 15, 2025, 7:37 PM UTC

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