Haircuts

Soooo, I have fairly long hair, just below my shoulders, and i want to get kind of a femme haircut. I want to go for egirl/alt look but im not knowledgeable at all on this long hair stuff so i was hoping for some pointers! I dont want to be full feminine cause i still only do the femboy stuff in private. so something that can pass as a male or female cut would be ideal. thanks if you can help! <3