Non romantic romance book

I don’t like books where romance is the central plot/main character development, but for some reason rn I’m really craving a best friends to lovers romance. I’d like it to be as ‘nonromantic’ as possible, no running through an airport scenes, no pining for years. Like the characters can go on dates and buy flowers but I think I’d like it if their ‘love languages’ were quality time or acts of service I also don’t want anything fantasy/scifi/thriller/etc just kinda slice of life. I’d prefer f/f or m/f but it’s not a huge preference. Sorry if this makes no sense!