24 about to be 25 and never had a boyfriend and used to be fat, where to start?

Hello all! I am so happy I found this subreddit as I would love to apart of the community with a similar mindset. So a little about me I am 24 and about to turn 25 next month. I’ve never been in a relationship or experienced any kind of romance and still a virgin (I am not waiting for marriage I just never found a guy that I liked). I believe a big reason as to why I never had a boyfriend was because I used to morbid obese 330lbs. This past year I’ve been working hard and I’ve lost 130lbs, I still have 30-40lbs to go and I should reach my goal weight by the fall. I do also have loose skin unfortunately but I am hoping my future man can pay for my loose skin removal.

I would love to be a in a relationship and eventually get married but only with the right guy who’s a provider. I’ve started watching shera’s lives and continuing on my level up journey. I was wondering if Theres maybe other girls who never had a boyfriend and are successful with getting provider men? Or any other ex-plus size girls who have been in my shoes. I also really nerdy and in the stem field and sometimes can come off as awkward, I don’t know to flirt and trying to learn!