Why the different standards for Asian men and Black women for discussing interracial topics and gendered racism?

The Under the Influence podcast came back with a start-from-scratch podcast after being cancelled. Someone dug up a clip of one of the Asian girls on the show discussing the belief that Asian men have small privates so Asian women must have small privates, and thus since Black men have big privates, then Black women must have big privates.

After the backlash, the show’s sponsor who owned the show pulled out completely. All their videos and social media were deleted. Everyone got hate even the Asian males who didn’t say it and experienced gendered racism themselves in the dialogue. They aren’t even allowed to mention the specific reason for the cancellation on their comeback show to avoid perpetuating stereotypes of Black women’s private parts.

https://youtu.be/gzOs7qHDPxY?si=qF8dNHp-OitVn-zW

Why do Black women have so much power when there are countless jokes about Asian men throughout the years. Chelsea Handler and Sacha Baron Cohen made numerous Asian male jokes (even at the Oscars). Or they paid an Uncle Tom’s Cabin-type minstrel like Ken Jeong to do it.

Jewish men have the same small penis stereotype.

https://youtu.be/7O2ApzR-hBk?si=AERN-aZestrltKQS

Chelsea Handler and Sacha Baron Cohen are Jewish. The executive producers and director (Todd Phillips) of The Hangover are Jewish. Any jokes or even mention of the small Jewish penis stereotype (or the deduction of Jewish women being “tighter”) are squashed.

Black women can openly discuss interracial topics, slamming Black male/White female couples in films like Jungle Fever and Waiting to Exhale. Watch old clips of daytime talk shows like Oprah discussing this topic extensively.

On the other hand, AM are labeled as MRAsians for doing the same thing. Any mention or criticism of AFWM is squashed. You see mainstream hit pieces on Slate, The Cut, and NBC News attacking message boards/subreddits for discussing this topic. Trust me, there are way more intense online discussions and cyberbullying on topics of politics and conspiracy theories. 

I also saw a surprising number of mainstream articles of AF’s defending themselves against the Oxford Study (a meme created by a Black male tiktoker).

Why is the media so quick to defend Black women, Jewish men, and Asian women but Asian men can be a punching bag for so many decades?