Ladies, is it gay to ask a man out?

No hate or shade towards gay people.

There is a common statement that men ask each other where they ask about something that many perceive to be kind of normal as humans to do but somehow a lot of people are against it like "fellas is it gay to cry infront of your girl?". So this is the female version of asking a guy out since a lot of women are against it.

That being said, ladies, is it gay to ask a man out or get his number?