35 [M4F] Let's discuss bullying/humiliation/degradation dynamics
If you look at my other prompt, you'll see that I have an interest in power exchange dynamics and control. One of the most interesting expressions of this type of dynamic is bullying and humiliation, which itself can take many different forms. That seems to be a common thing on this subreddit - I've seen countless posts from people wanting to be bullied or humiliated in all sorts of ways. I'm curious about the ways you're most interested in and why.
I'm interested in discussing this in more detail with those who have these types of fantasies. What do these fantasies look like for you? How are you bullied or humiliated? What is it about being bullied that appeals to you? What is it about humiliation that's such a turn on for you?
For me, it's not so much about the bullying/humiliation itself as it is the expression of control. The very concept of humiliation is a result of societal norms - certain things are OK, others are something you should be embarassed about. These can vary from culture to culture, which is partially what I want to explore in this prompt.
So if you're being bullied, you're being "made" to do something society tells you is embarrassing to do. But in a healthy dynamic, you're doing it willingly anyways because it appeals to you. Let's explore why that is. Is it just the control that appeals to you or do specific acts or expressions appeal to you most?
Were you bullied in the past? How? Did this play a role for you? What type of bullying or humiliation do you find most appealing? What types of individuals do you imagine being bullied or humiliated by?
I'd like to discuss this further with those who are interested in this type of dynamic and play.
NOTE: Please do not message me if you're 22 or younger, in a committed exclusive relationship or a marriage of any kind. It's nothing personal, I've just found that these factors can be limiting for conversation. Thank you.
Posted May 4, 2025, 4:39 PM UTC · locked