Anyone else really struggling to enjoy other Ai chat alternatives like they did Xoul.ai?

I keep seeing comments of people finding alternatives they're growing to love just as much as or even more so than Xoul.ai but I've been trying all of the ones that have been mentioned and if I'm being honest, I'm struggling to feel as immersed as I did when chatting to characters on Xoul.

I don't mean to be negative and I swear I'm trying to be open minded with it, but I don't know, it feels like nothing ever feels "right"? I've yet to feel like i've found something that has as great memory and writing as Xoul.ai (in my opinion - I know it's all subjective).

I actually managed to track down a few creators I really enjoyed on these alternatives that had characters I would speak to often and they all feel so different now despite technically being the same bots.

I'm going to keep trying different things until I find something that sticks, but I guess I just wanted to see if anyone else is currently still struggling in limbo like myself since Xoul.ai closed.