ENFP feels like a challenge to say no to things

I mean this in the context of my close relationships. I will literally bend over backwards and say yes to a friend/lover if they need my help. But I’m proud of it. I do consider it a bit of masculine energy. And I’m sure the female ENFPs can be similar.

I have been headstrong and stubborn for the former part of my life. That college major doesn’t have realistic opportunities? Who cares? I’m gonna go do that shiny thing anyways. I mean hey? It lead me to meet my future spouse and best friend. I do believe you will find your path no matter how uncertain life gets. Just trust and believe in your journey. But that definitely goes for all types.

Anyways just recently I decided to help a friend because the heck of it. Never mind I work multiple jobs and am a workaholic. I make the time. I never like to take anything that I have for granted. And to be honest - it motivates me to work even harder. But for sure I’m definitely working on saying no to things. Yes, it is ok to do self care and make sure your health is in good shape. But I definitely wouldn’t be where I’m at if I didn’t have love and good support in my life. :)