I’m very rapidly growing up to be a loser, do yall have any advice or ideas for me?

Advice

Firstly, Im really trying not to complain hard about my situation because i do have it very good, it’s an unconventional situation but I feel like I’m pretty spoiled compared to a lot of kids I knew.

Pretty much my whole life I was moved around, and I was never able to really make any real friends because of it. The latest house we have is in a neighborhood off of the interstate a few miles from town, the town being a small 2,500 person community. It would be no problem if I had a car that could go places, so I bought a cheap project car a year ago for $1000 promised that it would be a stepfather/stepson project, but we haven’t gone as far as replacing the battery and at this rate it’s bound to be a permanent lawn ornament.

School here was very rough to me, I ended up switching to online school because I felt that after a year and a half of searching for any friends, I probably wasn’t likely to find a friend in a school of 600 students. Being among everyone else who had practically known eachother since kindergarten was taking a toll on me so I had to leave.

Now, I almost never get the chance to leave my room and I feel like such a loser. I can’t get a job because I don’t have a car, I can’t get a car because I don’t have any money, and I cant get money without a job. I feel stuck, and it seems like everyone I ask just says to wait till I graduate and can move out, but how could I move out? If you guys have any solutions, I would really really appreciate your help. Thank you!

Posted May 4, 2025, 4:44 PM UTC

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