Uhm Help? Need a Server. Maybe Official?

So lately I got the itches to play again but NovaRO got shut down and yeah... I only noticed last week...
I was so tired of all of my progress getting deleted over the years on so many private servers that I am thinking about playing on an official server this time. BUTT WEIGHT! I am European and after trying to make an IRO account it just tells me "You are not allowed to see this content"
Basically I heard that EuRO players got banned in 2018 yes but about 1 year ago people started to emerge again with "EU can play on IRO" !?
So...what? Is there a way to create an Account for me on IRO or am I literally stuck with private servers that inevitably get deleted sometime in the future?
4th Job should be on the table tho.

for real I wanna play again... HELP