Ladies I need advice

Ndoda advice so I’m turning to you all. Ndave ready for marriage and torn between two guys. one is stable he has a car, a house, steady income, treats me well and wants to marry me then the other guy is someone wandoda cause we’ve been together 4 years. He doesn’t have much yet, but he’s trying. He’s asked me to wait 3 more years as he builds stability haaaa guys qith how hard life is in our country, I’m scared of passing up the stable guy, but I also don’t want to abandon someone I love who’s trying.. coz 4 yrs tiring tese we get each other zvekudaro pane here akambopinda same situation anyone What did you do, and how did it turn out?