Am I being too naive?

TW: Domestic Violence I was in a 3 year relationship that was extremely toxic, the girl would manipulate, cheat, and be aggressive towards me. My family watched as I was being manipulated into so much and I’ve lost a lot of friends as well due to it, long story short I’ve been through so much and carry so much trauma from it that it affected my whole life as a whole. Fortunately it ended about a month or 2 ago but I’d still remember the pain of praying and crying to god asking why is this the only love I can find? And I’m still struggling to let family hug me at times and be around society and if you have any tips on how to help with that please let me know. A few weeks after the break up a girl requests me on Instagram, and we start chatting it up, then few weeks pass and next thing you know is that she’s telling me and reassuring me in the best ways possible, she’s stating she wants to mend a heart she didn’t break, and right away it felt so different with her even comparing every other ex I’ve had. she lives a state away so before it even hit one month of talking she bought a ticket and wants to get my lips tatted. I know it sounds insane but it doesn’t feel real, it took her less then a month to show up for me more a state away then my previous relationships, it makes me think god genuinely brought the person I was begging for. Am I being too naive?