Pregnant by a man I didn’t know was married
Hi THT fam!
This one is a doozie. I was talking and sleeping w man for 6 months before I found out he was married and completed ended things about a month ago. When I found out he was married I confronted him. He said he was unhappy in his marriage and that he wants to get a divorce. That I was just SO perfect and he wanted to be with me. Okay cool I don’t care. You’re literally MARRIED! I ended things right after that conversation. Wellll I’m pregnant. Idk what to do. I’m 21 and he’s 32. He does have a 5 year old girl. I would also like to say that I am on birth control so I wasn’t being completely stupid. The wife knows he cheated as well. I assume that they’re still together. Not sure. Do I unblock him and tell him? Should I have him/her? I only want kids w someone who is going to be an equal parent. Otherwise I wouldn’t regret not having them. From what I know he’s seems to be a great dad to his little girl and he does want more kids. I’m so conflicted. Please help. I’ll be active for any other questions for context. Thanks in advance
Posted May 5, 2025, 12:31 AM UTC