Married men of sg: how did you keep your wife happy all the time?

Hi bros, married for about 6-7 years with 2 kids. Wife says I don’t talk to her as much as I used to in the early stages of marriage.

We don’t have big fights but sometimes small arguments when the topic involves kids.

I feel like we are more distanced when the kids arrived. Things are more routine and we have less couple time e.g watching movies since we have to chase our kids around all the time. And by the time they are asleep we are both shag Liao.

Both of us work 9-6pm. Weekends, we are the servants of the kids.

How did you keep her satisfied all the time?

Ideas I have

• bring her out for a date. Leave the kids with relatives
• get her random presents (no occasions)