What would you do if your friend asked your friend who was blackout drunk to see her nudes
Okay so I really would like some opinions on what you would do in this situation because I feel like my emotions are clouding my judgement. I’m telling this from third person because I want to try to be unbiased, your thoughts are appreciated 🥲
So let’s say you (18F) have two friends Chloe (19F) and Sarah (18F). Chloe and Sarah have only met two times before this but you and Sarah decide to go go to Chloe’s house to hang out. You and Chloe decide to drink and you both get really fucked up, I’m talking drinkin half a 5 liter box of wine and half a bottle of vodka in an hour and a half. Chloe end up bringing up nudes and how she fucked up by sending someone nudes and how she has to stop because this really messed with her, you asked to she what she sent out and she agrees because you two are close but says she’s uncomfortable with Sarah seeing any of the pictures.
Sarah says she really wants to see them though but Chloe laughs it off and says no. She asks again and Chloe says no. Next time Sarah asks Chloe says she’ll just show a picture of her chest but never does and drops the topic in hopes that everyone will move on.
Chloe showers and you and her start talking about other stuff but eventually Sarah brings up again how she wants to see them and see what color nipples she has and Chloe just ends up showing Sarah the pictures. By the end of the night Chloe was lying in a puddle of vomit unable to move.
The next morning Chloe is scared and hurt, she felt like she was taken advantage of in a sense. She thinks it’s weird that she was pressured by a sober person to do something she made clear she didn’t want to do. But now she’s also hurt because you didn’t react in anyway, whether it’s be defending her checking in on her or something. Chloe is against sending nudes due to her being involved in CP as a child and you know that which is partially why this is a big deal for her.
What would you have done in this situation? What’s the appropriate response from a friend?
TLDR; you and Chloe got really drunk, and Sarah who was sober asked Chloe to show her nudes to her repeatedly until Chloe gave in and showed them. Now Chloe is upset mainly at Sarah but wished you responded since you’re close.
Posted May 5, 2025, 1:57 AM UTC