29 y/o f asking. What should I do ?

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I need some help from the guys here. I’ve been seeing this guy mostly every weekend for about 2 months. We’re both busy working professionals in our late 20s. Our sexual chemistry is 10/10- we can not keep our hands off of each other when we’re together. I think I am overthinking something. Last night, I invited him over for cuddles and tv, he came over about 8:30 and by 9:30 I was so tired I fell asleep on him on the couch. At 11:30 he asked if I wanted him to tuck me in and I said yes but aren’t you staying?? And he said no he’s going home because he sleeps better there. The night before he stayed over too but couldn’t sleep so I get that he was tired. I’m a little disappointed but also thinking is this man not into me! I am an over thinker when it comes to relationships and I know men and women think differently. I asked him if he left bc sex was off the table and he said no he genuinely wanted to get some sleep. I want this relationship to go somewhere, and we haven’t had any serious conversations about that. We don’t usually text on the weekdays because of work i assume and we go on dates but always have sex when we hang out. He hasn’t texted me at all today and idk, I’m feeling like if I say something else I could ruin things. He texted me when he left last night and I said to him I was feeling sad and disappointed bc I thought he’d be staying. He offered to come back but I said no. Should I readdress and tell him how I feel that I want more from him, or let it go? What would you guys want to hear from a girl that’s into you? Does it sound like he’s into me? I know men are sex driven, so I’m very confused. We haven’t texted today.

Posted May 5, 2025, 2:00 AM UTC

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